The last couple of years were challenging for my family. My mom had dementia and we needed to try and keep up with her changing brain and its impact on her functioning, social needs, and physical status. We also needed to care for ourselves so we could continue caring for the woman we loved dearly. As a highly sensitive person WITH experience in patient care environments, I found myself researching and thinking of how we could best keep up with her needs and keep her engaged, safe and happy.
But, what if I had a book I could read early in our journey, instead of during her last days. There is now such a book and it is written by someone who is highly respected for her work in dementia care - Teepa Snow. Her book presents a positive approach to dementia care by educating the reader on the changing brain of those diagnosed with dementia. As I read, the book clarified/explained what we had observed and reassured me that my parents and I had all done our best to enjoy the time we had together. I recommend it to anyone facing a new diagnosis or who seems to be struggling with how best to respond to their loved one's condition and behaviors over time.
Teepa's tips and insights explain what is needed for caregivers to be more understanding and competent in caregiving. However, the images included in the book show us what is happening to our loved one's brain so we can truly become more observant of the need for engagement/interaction and effective in our responses. But, more relevant are the images of the changing brain and the sponge graphic. These help us to shift our perspective and understand the why and how our responses have such a great impact.
Readers will find answers to the following questions:
- How do I know if it’s dementia or something else?
- How do I tame my reactions to manage my frustration?
- What do I need to know that I might not know already?
- What changes can I expect and how do I deal with those changes?
If you want more than simply caring for your loved one and truly want to make the most of the time you have left together, read Understanding the Changing Brain.
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